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5 Keys to Living a Passionate Life

Updated on February 26, 2019

Keys to Passionate LivingYou feel like something is missing in your life, but the next step alludes you.

You see people living a passionate life, but you don’t know where to start.

This was the exact situation I found myself in not too long ago.

In 2009, I was a professional online poker player. I was making money, but I didn’t enjoy it anymore.

It was time for the next chapter in my life.

I knew I could contribute to the world, but I doubted myself.

Looking back, there were five things I would’ve said to my past self to make things easier.

1. Truth

Be honest with yourself.

Examine your expectations. You’re diving into something new.

You will stumble. You will feel overwhelmed, uncertain and scared. You won’t know what to do next. You’ll feel like you’re jumping out of an airplane without a parachute.

Those thoughts and feelings are to be expected. But remember, you are not your feelings or thoughts.

You feel your thinking, sure, but you don’t have to take it so seriously. New, fresh thinking is always around the corner.

You don’t have to change your thoughts. You don’t have to fix your emotions. Let it all be.

This is what it’s like to be human. Enjoy the ride.

2. Passion

Find your passion.

Forget about finding the perfect passion. It’ll never happen.

Like a kid in a candy store, look at finding your passion as an adventure. There are many flavors available. The only way to discover what you like is to start licking things.

If you’re fresh out of college, this is even more important, because you have no idea of what you should expect from life.

You can’t make predictions, because you have no basis for those predictions.

In reality, none of us can predict the future. All you can do is follow your excitement.

It’s when you move forward that your path is revealed to you.

You don’t have to try so hard. Do what you can with what you have. That’s enough, because it’s the only thing you can do.

Making mistakes is a part of this path. In fact, it’s what makes this path, and life, full of flavor.

3. Resistance

Learn to deal with resistance.

When I create a course or write a book, I want it to be perfect.

Luckily, I’m also aware of the fact that I can only do my best. I aim for good enough.

By doing this, I let myself relax, and enjoy what I do. I don’t force myself to do what I can’t do.

Letting go gives me access to a tremendous amount of energy. Instead of wasting energy on worrying and doubting, I focus on how I can help.

Don’t get me wrong, I still worry. I’m still human, after all. The difference is that I take my worrisome thoughts less seriously.

Get comfortable with resistance. Allow it to dance in your body. Keep putting one foot in front of the other. The rest is out of your hands.

Resistance is simply thinking we take seriously. What if I fail? What if I’m not good enough?

So what?

Those are hypothetical scenarios your mind presents. I let them be. I move forward anyway. I discover that my thoughts are horrible at predicting the future.

4. Enjoyment

Why are you doing any of this?

Living your passion can become another hamster-wheel of achievement, but it doesn’t have to end up that way.

You have the ability to enjoy each moment. I’m not talking about eliminating sadness, fear, anxiety, grief, or even depression.

Even those “low” states can be enjoyed, if they are seen for what they are: Indicators of your thinking at that moment.

When I feel anxious, I know not to take my thoughts so seriously. I allow myself to take a break. Not always, but often enough.

I’m okay with making mistakes, with getting stuck in anxiety, with being human.

I can enjoy the ordinary existence of being human. Enjoyment is about being present in this very moment.

It is about living with lightness, and seeing that enjoyment is available right here, right now.

It is not in the future. It is here.

5. Money

If you’re reading this, chances are you want to get paid to do what you love.

In order to do that, you have to find the intersection between what you love to do, what you are good at (or want to get good at) and what people are willing to pay for.

It’s not easy.

It can feel overwhelming.

But the first step is to start.

You’ve just entered the candy store. The next step is to dive in and explore. Break things. Taste things.

Many marketers try to sell you a quick fix, but you and I both know those don’t work.

You start with what you have, where you are, and you do your best. That’s it.

As you move forward, you’ll discover what works for you, because you’re equipped with your own inner GPS. You have wisdom within you waiting to nudge you forward.

And if you want to dive deeper into all of these keys, I invite you to check out my premium course, Live Your Passion.

Bottom Line

Start before you feel ready.

The people living a passionate life started even though they were scared.

They didn’t know what the future held, but they did it anyway. Stop planning and start doing.

Think about the kid in the candy store. He doesn’t think about what the flavors might taste like, he just dives in.

You could say that adult life is different, but is it?

Are you saying that you can’t take a tiny step in some direction today?

You are the only one holding you back.

Let your thinking come and go. Let life dance through you.

See what happens as you grip existence more lightly.

All the best from Finland,
Henri

P.S. Do you have trouble finding your passion? Then I recommend you check out my popular book Find Your Passion: 25 Questions You Must Ask Yourself.

It’ll help you gain clarity, and take the next step.

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Comments

  1. Jo says

    December 10, 2012 at 14:15

    All so very true! I feel like i’m finally beginning to take my first steps…I have just quit my job and so come January I will be taking to leap of faith intl the unknown to follow my passions. I will be following those points and all the great content in the Birthday Bundle which I have yet to absorb myself in…exciting times!

    • Henri says

      December 10, 2012 at 14:18

      Very cool. I’m curious to see how things go, so feel free to keep me posted.

  2. swalia says

    December 13, 2012 at 11:59

    interesting post….not everyone has the courage to follow his passion….blessed are the ones who dare to dream and work towards realising them!

    • Henri says

      December 13, 2012 at 12:28

      I would say that not everyone chooses to follow their passion. There’s never anything stopping people from starting.

      Cheers, Swalia!

  3. Max Lagace says

    December 15, 2012 at 01:28

    I will definitely come back here.
    There’s a couple of things I like about this post and this blog :
    -the simplicity
    -the clarity
    -your writing style

    Subscribed and shared!
    Thanks,

    • Henri says

      December 15, 2012 at 08:54

      Awesome. Thanks, Max!

  4. Peter Hamilton says

    January 25, 2013 at 05:03

    What I have discovered over time (going over your material Henri) your passion is much bigger than you. You are a means through which greater things can come especially to others. Passion is the fuel to your fire that burns within. It makes life meaningful and significant in countless ways. It all just starts with a single step, that’s all and yes sometimes you have to be prodded, reminded then pushed to start your journey.

    Thanks for this post, it always gets reread. I love the way you avoid the overwhelm factor in all your material, that’s not easy to do and it takes plenty of skill!

    Thanks Henri and all the best!

    • Henri says

      January 25, 2013 at 06:13

      Very good points, Peter.

      It does feel like my passion is bigger than me, but it didn’t always feel this way. So it’s been a gradual unfolding (and still is).

      And it all comes down that first step, and then another, and another, and … 🙂

  5. George says

    February 18, 2014 at 20:50

    Truth is the one that stands out to me, when you are just starting out it is easy to believe that things will work out easier for you than everyone else. Then when you dive in you realize that creating the life you want to live doesn’t happen over night.

    This is what happened to me, I had to be honest with myself that it was going to take time for me to develop and create what I want to create. Now when I hit stalls or bumps in the road I accept them for what they are, no longer putting off the problems they have created.

    Great post!

  6. J.D. Meier says

    February 25, 2014 at 08:11

    Pain, fear, purpose, passion, are all powerful motivators.

    One of the best ways I’ve found that I can really stick with something is to pick a problem I hate … and then channel that passion to make the world a better place.

  7. Antony Xavier says

    April 25, 2017 at 17:11

    Dear Henry,
    Your blog is always inspiring. I am 47 out of my teaching career which i did for past 18 years (India). My passion to be a life skill trainer for school and college going students , somehow stranded for past one year,even though I did 3 programs… Yet fear haunts me where to start. This article gives me so much courage.. Thank you …here I am, up with my sleeves.

  8. Nicah Caramba says

    April 25, 2017 at 18:53

    I’m new to blogging, but I’m using it as a tool to do what I’m passionate about: Public Speaking.
    I’m not an expert or a keynote speaker or anything, but I have the drive to improve myself and help other speakers and fellow bloggers along the way.
    The truth is the hardest part, since I know I have an easily hurt ego and higher pride than I’d care to admit.
    But a passionate life has no room for lies.
    Living in the truth is the right way to live and be free.

    I enjoyed the article very much, Henri!
    Thank you.

    Talk soon,
    Nicah

  9. Adam says

    February 27, 2019 at 22:54

    “You don’t have to change your thoughts. You don’t have to fix your emotions. Let it all be.”

    That is a great line. Thank you.

  10. Simon Lin says

    February 28, 2019 at 15:54

    You really inspire me all the time. Life is not easy, however, what holds me back is not life itself, it’s the negative thoughts about life. Just take them less seriously and let it be. Let’s see what will happen eventually. Thank you again for your help.

  11. Luna says

    May 8, 2019 at 10:45

    You just made me cry. Thank you.

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