Just a few days ago I was chatting with Oleg and realized I was staring synchronicity in the face.
We we’re chatting on Skype, and I didn’t notice this before, but his name on there was exactly a domain name I had been thinking of in the past (in relation to Wake Up Cloud).
It caused a river of chills to run down my spine. These chills usually confirm my thoughts. It’s the universe, your guides, your higher self or whatever you want to call it letting me know that I am on the right path.
Another interesting one I get from time to time is numbers. For example, I see 11:11 on the clock.
A lot of people are getting this now and I do not feel like it is anything significant, but I would recommend that you listen to your own feelings and see what kind of information download you’re getting.
It can give rise to new thoughts and nudge you in the right direction. It can be another confirmation telling you that you’re doing well or it can just be you checking the clock all the time.
Coincidences are most powerful when you let them happen. With all that said, let’s dive a little bit deeper and look at how to manifest synchronicity and serendipity in everyday life.
When you’re doing what you’re supposed to do (yes I think we set goals before we come into this world), the universe will help you and show you that you’re on the right path.
If you’re heading in the wrong direction you’ll get subtle clues. First of all, you’ll feel bad. How bad depends on your situation. If you’ve been working a job you hate for 10 years you might feel pretty miserable.
In the last year, as I’ve started to discover my purpose and take action, the coincidences in my life have increased exponentially.
If you’re unaware of what’s happening, you will never notice any coincidences. Awareness can be expanded in many different ways. Meditation is the tool that has worked the best for me. Experiment and find out, we’re all different.
If you are able to be in the present moment, then that is all it takes. Focus on your breathing, feel your body and be deliberate in whatever you do. There is no rush.
The first time I noticed an expansion in my awareness was when I was walking down the road and I suddenly noticed new trees and houses. I heard the birds and really noticed the people walking up and down the street.
A big part of learning how to manifest synchronicity and coincidences is letting go of your desires. If you’re constantly trying to bring something into your life, you’ll often fail.
The vibration you are sending out is one of lack. If you’re in a mode of want, you’re telling the universe you do not have whatever it is you’re wanting, which means you’re visualizing or feeling lack, whether you’re aware of it or not.
It’s funny how just as I write this article, I glance down at the clock and see 22:22 (Europeans don’t use the AM-PM system). Another pat on the back from my friends on the other side.
There are several ways to release your desires. The most simple one is to write down all of your desires as frequently as possible. This will allow you to dump your thoughts onto paper.
If you want something to take the emotional charge off your negative thoughts, I recommend EFT (great video on getting started here).
If you want coincidences to happen, you have to trust your intuition and inner guidance. Sometimes you’ll feel the urge to go and rent a movie, which will give you the exact answer you need.
All of these things may not happen instantaneously, so allow time for them to manifest. Just by being aware of them and setting the intention that you want more synchronicity in your life will get the ball rolling.
But you have to be realistic. I’ve seen so many people tell me that it doesn’t work and when I ask them what they want, they almost always tell me things like “1 million in the bank so I can follow my passion and help people.”
This will only work if you resonate with getting money internally. Most people do not, because in reality, you do not need money to do what you love. It’s just another excuse.